Thursday, March 15, 2012

Marriage~ How to surrender ~ women to your husband

Marriage~ How to surrender ~ women to your husband

Introduction

Wives be submissive to your husband.
Husband love your wife as Christ love the church. Ephesian5:24-25

Why did it not say husband be submissive to your wife? Why just wife be submissive to your husband? 

I know I have heard that it means this for the both of them, and that it is also based on the culture of that time.

I particular believe the word submissive was meant directly to the wives and wives only, meaning the female personality.

Using the word submissive is like a deactivator complete shut down for men in that statement. It does not make them weak but different.

Difference is not weakness.

Vice versa women we have our weak words too.

Looking at the makeup of the sex, female and the male sex; It is obvious that they are different in physical, mental and emotional structure, although we have or should I say some of us, has now become aware that both male and female have some aspect of masculine and feminine genes inside them.  Now balancing those genes and hormones is needed.

 We are both definitely different and need to be treated with respect and understanding.

The difference is awesome and the union is majestic!

It is a direct statement only to the female, in all era not pertaining the male.
Why is that so? The woman structure in all areas has a sense of ruler-ship and authority demeanour and that is necessary. Women have a keen and detailed eye and they are seers and notices of everything. They can pick up information when it is not nearby. 

The men on the other hand do not take time to notice details, or should I say so much details.

Men love your wife as Christ love the church directly to the man in all ages and era. For the man He understands the word love in his capacity, he interprets it better than the statement, “be submissive to your wife”. 
Natural instincts say, “I am the head”.  “What”!.......and the rest.

When He hears Love your wife as Christ love the church.  He relates to the word love in the way, that, he when talking about it, hearing it understands it. I will use the word corporation or becoming one and united. This is all what comes to his mind when he hears the word love instead the word submissive.


He realises that it is his responsibility to protect and lay down his life for his wife, laying down one life for another that is indeed submissive and love. 

Christ became submissive to the church when He gave his life for her. The church did not rule Him He still ruled even in the grave because of a selfless act done out of pure love.

I was on a site and a question was asked, "What do every man wants"?
I wanted to say a navigator I was hesitant, I really wanted to answer that question. I did not answer the question.

I am brave enough now to answer it Everyman wants a navigator and a timepiece I do have scripture to back it up.

Why every man wants a navigator and a timepiece?

For directions!

Have you ever notice on television shows and or movies with men, pioneers, sailors, adventures, historian etc. They always have a navigator and a timepiece. A man that is in control heading somewhere on voyage always carries a compass or navigator and a timepiece with him.  For direction and to know what time it is.

A woman  she always knows what time it is. Even if she is wrong she is stilling telling you what time it is, it is for you to pick it up, that the time could be moody. Left or right 90 degrees nnw, nne, ssw, sse longitude latitude etc

(she is in a moody time zone.........excuse me........lololol) 

Where that compass or navigator and timepiece always rest? 

I notice around his neck, in his jacket right next to his heart and or in his pant pocket on the right side. I notice that, maybe they were just coincidences for me.

I have not watched a movie or show like this in a very long time.

A woman is a navigator and a timepiece it is your responsibility to learn and know how to read it.
Excuse me sorry her. (:

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